Today a group of my friends had a talk that mde us all start thinking about what we have nd what we are about to have. It was intense for all of us, I for one felt that it all seemed to make sense in a weird strong right kind of way. Don't you think that the words "I love you" is thrown around too much, people now seem to use it as much as they use the word "man". Is that the value of love these days?? We all agreed that the sacredness and status of love isn't really preserved, it is just a bunch of words people think they know, but even our little group couldn't explain it. Another issue was about makn a choice, as in a really REALLY hard choice. Everyone has to go through making a difficult choice once in their life, it's inevitable. Although, we should always try to look at the big picture in everything we encounter. One of my friends said NEVER EVER jump into a relationship if you don't think there's ever going to be a future with that person, cause once you get into one, commitment and a future is where it's headed. People misunderstand the fact that if you're not gonna be serious and you're only doing it for the sake of just having a relationship, then forget it, cause that relationship is gonna fail for sure. At this age, thinking about this is part of life, we're suppose to think about it, no one's gonna stop us. We all have to know that this is all more than just the spine-tingling moments, the holding hands, the never ending dates... it's much much more. Books movies are all just portraying how simple we wished it all was, but it isn't... welcome to the real world. The conclusion we all had was a few, we had to compromise so that the next time we talked about it, a basis was present. So here they are:

1. ALWAYS ALWAYS REMEMBER, it was God who gave us love, so when you feel it try to be thankful.

2. NEVER be indecisive about anything to do about the commitment in a relationship, cause once you start doubting choices, all of it will start breaking down. In other words, make only one decision and stick to it. Never jump into a relationship if you don't know yourself or you're not ready, cause if the other person is, you'll just break his/her heart.

3. ALWAYS ALWAYS open up to the other person. We found this as the most important, since communication is everything. Don't expect the other to read your mind. It's impossible.

4. NEVER EVER say "I love you" if you don't feel it, cause that makes you seem heartless, and please don't use that as an excuse or a thing to keep something that's not working out attached, cause you're only lying to yourselves.

5. ALWAYS ALWAYS show love, don't say it. The common problem is, people expect the other person to show them love in a way that they wished, but we should try to comprehend and accept whatever it is they give. Always show it when you feel like it, and when it is called for, never hold that back cause the words "I wish I did that, but now I can't" will haunt you.

After our little talk, we all promised that we would always keep each other at bay with these rules. We hope to spread these thoughts with other people that's why I posted it here. We'renot saying we're right, we just hope to help people and open their eyes to the truth so that no one will get hurt and have hearts broken, cause it's never a pretty sight. So, remember to always think about it well before doing anything this vast... always think of your heart and about the truth.